She’s Falling In Love And Can’t Get Up
While on a social networking site that I also post articles on, I came across another members recent post describing her overwhelming feelings of pain and angst over a lost love. Her powerful writings described feelings of falling hard, unrequited love, yearnings for comfort, tossing blindly and her willingness to walk into the fire to be reunited with her lover.
As a little girl I remember all too well the feelings of being dumped by Bobby, my kindergarten boyfriend for little blond Karen, his newest conquest. Although I grew up, fell madly in love myself and lived the all American dream for a few years, the bubble burst and I ended up a single parent of three. As I often tell my patients in my private practice here in Boca Raton, Florida (http://www.bocatherapy.com/) love is not for the timid. In order to love one must be willing to risk. With risk comes thousands of possibilities of outcome. There are no guarantees in life or love. So if you are bold enough to take that giant leap of faith, there are still ground rules for searching for Mr. or Mrs. right!
Who doesn’t want to be in love? It is the happiest of places to be, you and me babe against the world! To be loved and desired is one of the most desirest things in the world! Get up off that floor! You must get your stuff together and realize that being in a place with someone that doesn’t want you is not healthy. Begin the journey of moving on with the rest of your life. In order to be truly loved, you must love yourself first. By becoming you, you’ll meet that match that is right for you.
So instead of reaching out for a phantom love or talking to yourself about what a cold, cold road it is out there, do something about finding that one great person to share your life with. The author I wrote about described her feelings of unrequited love as: “I am sitting here at my computer waiting as usual for him to email me, I have a feeling he won’t. This is hard to write and as I do the tears start once more, I have cried over him so many times. I met someone who after talking with for several month’s, almost everyday, came to love. Now how silly is that? I know I am being silly, but it’s true. I told him many times how I feel, he thought it was nice, but was honest from the start telling me he did not feel the same way. So I made a fool of myself . Can someone tell me how do you get over someone you love, but dosn’t love you? It hurts terribly and my heart is broken. ”
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